Monday, November 22, 2010
A VERY SUBTLE YET EXTREMELY IMPORTANT PART OF THE GAME
Most guys, when they go into a set, go in with the attitude of "I'm going to try and 'pick up' this girl." However, as noted in the last post, people will sense what your intentions are just by your body language and your vibe. Don't hit on anyone. Get in there. Open the set indirectly and just talk talk talk. Also, it's very important to be enthusiastic about what you are talking about because enthusiasm is contagious. One of the most important pieces of the game is being talkative and flashing a positive vibrancy at all times. Everyone wants to be around someone who is exciting. Thing is, I notice whenever I'm not only in a good mood but rather in an AWESOME mood, people tend to gravitate toward me naturally. My mood was usually due to something exciting that happened to me earlier that day. So I would be on cloud 9 for hours and hours. My openers for the rest of the day would be about my incredible experience earlier that day. That's right. I would just walk up to a girl who I didn't know and just start yakking about my awesome day all enthusiastically. After I was done with my story I would just look at her and say "And now I meet you, my day can't get any better." I almost always get the girl when I flash positivity and vibrancy. So it got me thinking. Ya know how if you're feeling down you can force yourself to smile and actually feel better just by carrying out that physical action? Well, what if you just forced yourself to smile every time you approached a set? Not only would it make you feel happier, but it would draw people to you naturally. I have so many quality women in my life now because of following this ONE principle. And many of them are just friends and that's great. I love women. I think they are amazing. Signing off. Cheers.
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