GOING OUT FOR VALIDATION...THE WRONG WAY

When I first got into the game, it was all about validation.  Going out, meeting women, getting phone numbers, and feeling validated by it for a short while until the next number close.  This is normal for most guys in the Challenge.  However, it is not a good idea.  If, however, you go out into the field and go with the attitude of giving value instead of taking it away, your game will improve immensely.  Human beings are AMAZING!  They can sense when someone in their proximity is wanting something from them just like they can sense when someone in their proximity is there only to make them feel better about themselves.  You want to be the latter.  Be the one who doesn't need validation.  The one whose inner-game is so infallible that you don't need validation from anything or anyone.  You are comfortable in your own skin.  That's the kind of person that others gravitate towards.