Before I get to my story, I want to discuss the science of social dynamics a bit. Every human being has hard-wired switches in their brains that trigger attraction. These switches can be flipped on or off. One of these attraction switches is "pre-selection by women". In a social gathering, if a man can convey that he has the approval, or "social proof", of women then other women in proximity to him will feel attraction for him on some level. And to a certain degree, this works for women as well. If a woman can convey that she is cool just hangin around the guys then other guys will, on some level, be attracted to that. That is why it is important to always have people of the opposite sex in your proximity during the entire time in the field. I personally, and i don't think i'm alone on this, think it's really cool when a hott girl can be comfortable just hangin around the guys. This means that she is confident and is not insecure. I also think that those are the highest value females; the ones who are extremely good looking, have a solid personality, and are not afraid to hang around guys. So, pre-selection by women. It's an attraction switch and if you can properly convey it then you will have more opportunities to meet more women. Now...i'll get to my story.
I walked downtown last night. I was pretty off my game. Day 26 threw me off a bit since I was used to not using any material in conversation. I got stuck for things to say. After about an hour, I met up with a friend of mine named Anthony. Anthony is super-cool. He had a lot of pre-selection. He arrived with 3 or 4 girls (pre-selection/social proof) and I was impressed. I hung out with them for a bit and went to another bar with them. It was at this bar that we stood outside for a while not wanting to pay the cover charge. It was also outside this bar that I successfully performed the rings routine and cold reading on this girl from a bachelorette party. So I can't say that last night was a totally burn-out. I just got too drunk (a mistake that I will have to watch out for next time). The rings routine is where you predict a person's personality by the fingers they wear their rings on and use cold reading to make sure that your reading is more accurate (or at least seems more accurate to them). I've used it several times and people think I'm a psychic! Isn't that wild! I'm not a psychic and I don't claim to have any special intuitive powers. But it's still fun to watch their reactions and get them interested in you and build attraction. Well, I hope this info was helpful. Signing off. Cheers.
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