The best way, in my opinion, to expand our small realities is by inviting someone new into them. These are wise words from a friend of mine. Some people are so awfully terrified of social rejection and, I can empathize. I'm not one to say that their fear of rejection is nonsense because I, too, have been there and I still am to a certain degree. One of the things that has helped me overcome and let go of the outcomes of my interactions is knowing that: 1) there are 7 billion people in the world, what does one person's opinion of me matter? (2) of the many times I was rejected at the beginning of my journey, I have yet to see one of those people a second time. They have forgotten all about me and that interaction and I am long gone from their memory. Besides, I wouldn't know if I saw them again b/c I wouldn't recognize them if I did. It is just that insignificant to me and probably even less significant to them which means they wouldn't recognize me either. (3) as Wayne Gretsky put it, "You miss 100% of the shots you DON'T take. (4) BE A MAN! i know that sitting here reading this advice is a million miles of difference from actually being in-field and experiencing all the limiting beliefs we have about ourselves before an approach when were in the moment. But, like anything else, the more you do it, the better you become at it. There's no magic bullet or magic phrase you can spit out to make someone drawn to you instantly. It's a gradual and sequential process that takes lots and lots of practice to master. Be a man. Get out there and get what you deserve. Don't let your genes get weeded out of existence by mother nature. Go out and attract the best possible female suitor to be the love of your life and to enable you to carry on your genes. We're all just animals at our most basic biological origin and, like in the animal kingdom, the males compete for the best possible female suitor. Get out there and get what you deserve.
And I know what some people might be saying. "It's sleazy or cheap to learn the art of pick-up or try to slime women into being attracted to you." My response: It's much more of a shame that there are so many interesting guys out there, who have a whole world of value to give, and always get stuck with their second, or third, or even fourth choice because they did not have the skills to attract and display their value properly to the woman of their dreams. That's what I find shameful. All that wasted potential simply because they didn't know how to convey their best self and amplify the attraction. Maybe this is how it was meant to be. Maybe I should feel lucky that I am on the road to fulfilling my biological purpose and their lack of success just leaves more options for me. I don't mean to sound like an a**. That's just how it is. Good luck to everyone. Signing off.
P.S. i wasn't able to complete Day 22 today. Well, I completed part of it. No worries. There's always tomorrow. : )
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