I have to go in a second so I'll make this quick. For simplicity's sake, let's dive right into this topic. A man walks into a public gathering, say, a night club where there are over 200 people. The man sees a beautiful woman in a group of 3 other women, which is called a 4-set. He wants to talk to that beautiful woman. What does he do? Well, the average chump would go right up and talk to her. This is wrong. If you truly want to be different, approach that girls entire group paying little attention to the girl that you are interested in. Be fun, vibrant, and exciting and get her friends' approval. If your target is on a high horse you may need to neg her. Of course, always neg with a smile. Get her friend's approval and you have overcome one of the biggest obstacles. In a nutshell, once you have her friends' approval, you can start talking to her and start building attraction with DHV's (demonstrations of higher value) such as telling interesting stories, rings routine, cold reading, etc. etc. This is the foundation of group theory.
What about groups that contain guys???
Simple. When you open the set, the guys are going to think that you are after their girl. (Biological Male Competition) Therefore, simply pay most of your attention to the guys. Become the alpha-male in the group, the Leader of Men so they call it. Be that super-interesting and fun guy that everyone wants to be around. If you have successfully done this, the girl will start giving you IOI's (indicators of interest) and be careful with IOI's and IOD's (indicators of disinterest) because your responses to these signs must be properly calibrated. Give an IOI for every IOI you receive and give an IOD for every IOD you receive. The tricky part is being able to read body language and tonalities. I've got to go. Hope this was helpful. Signing off. Cheers.
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