If you are one to try online dating, you are not going to get many replies to your messages if you message a girl with message like "Hey, ur sexy" or "Hey, let's meet up" or "Hey, what's ur number". Girls don't work that way. If u come off like ur just lookin' for a hook up then ur gonna get just the opposite...an un-hookup. You won't get much feedback. Try being creative on the first message, non-flirty, and just talk like you're talking to a good friend. Here's what I do, and I've had much success with my approach to online dating. Send some eye-catching/creative/non-flirty message like "hi. i'm john. i have a trip planned for next week. i was going to go to the Cayman Islands and sell hot dogs right on the beach dressed up like a priest...are you in? u can be my co-worker and dress up like a nun. but we have to argue the whole time about who is going to push the cart up and down the beach so people won't think we're attracted to each other (nuns and priests cannot get married)...but you might want to bring some sandwiches or something but no chicken salad cuz it smells like farts.
i know this sounds very juvenile but the idea is to just convey a sense of humor and be different than most guys...trust me, to a girl who is doing online dating, a message like this is a breath of fresh air to the usual dull messages she gets.
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