Let's face it. Women are more attracted to "bad boys" than they are to nice guys. Well, they are to a certain extent. Now, I could be wrong but I would assume that women who are at the stage in their life where they want to get married and start a family (biological purpose in life) would value a nice, caring guy moreso than a "bad boy" for stability purposes. But for girls who are not at that stage in their life, they are drawn to the excitement and challenge that a nice guy just doesn't offer them. I used to wonder, why in the hell do the guys who are jerks to girls ultimately get them when I'm nice to them and I don't get a thing. Haha. That was me a few years back. I've discovered the truth about it though. Nice guys just don't offer any challenge or mystery about them. It's boring and we all want to work for something because, the more we work for it, the more we value it.
When I was a kid and my grandfather put me to work at his business, he made me work for hours and hours and, due to lack of experience and just being a young boy, he wouldn't pay me much at all and that made me want to hold on to the money and save it. I put in all that work and the value of that money, even though it wasn't much, went through the roof because it represented an incredible amount of work that I did. Now, I remember one time at about age 18 when a rich woman paid me eighty dollars just to wash her car. Let me say that again. Eighty Dollars! I spent that money faster than a cheetah runs across the Serangheti chasing a herd of anteloupe. I didn't work very hard for it and it came to me easily. Therefore the value was low. We don't value what comes to us easily. Be a bit unattainable when it comes to women and dating. Trust me.
Everyone wants the unattainable and jerks make it seem like they are unattainable and women flock to them like a fat man to a big mac. I'll put it this way. To women, bad boys are like a hot fudge sundae...women know it's not going to be good for them but they still crave it anyways. Whereas the nice guys are like salads. Women know the nice guys will be good to them but they don't want them. Meditate on that. Signing off. Cheers.
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