After much pondering about past experiences, I've narrowed my game down to one thing. Being in the zone. At this point, all the other things just come to me if I'm in the zone. It's a state of mind that vibrates positivity and fun. If I'm in a bar or club and I'm in the zone, I will never find myself alone with nothing to say or do. If I'm in the zone I will always be in a set and having a good time and likewise with the people in the set. That's it. I feel like I've uncovered a huge secret of the game. It's taken a lot of work but it was worth it. To analyze THE ZONE....it's just about having fun, being social, and having gambits to draw attention to you. One of these gambits I've been experimenting with is the use of magic. It's great to draw attention to you. As of now, I can levitate objects and that's enough to draw attention but, naturally, I will progress further with magic. Getting in a social mood is another thing. I suggest, before you go out, listen to club music or watch a funny movie. Listen to club music and just dance dance dance like it doesn't matter just to loosen up. That's what I do. Maybe it'll work for you as well. If you're going out with buddies, make up a game that will draw attention to your set. Here's one that works for me. When I go out with buddies, we always play this game called the "Jagger". Here's how it's played...at any time during the night in the bar, any one of my friends can tell one of us to do our best "Jagger" (Mick Jagger dance...watch it on YOUTUBE) and we have to do it regardless of whether we're alone or talking to the hottest girl in the bar. Now, you have a choice. You can either "Jagger" or you can take a shot of whatever your friends decide for you to take. And most of the time it's like Vodka and tobasco sauce so I prefer to just do the Jagger even if i'm in-set with a bunch of hotties. And the fun part IS when you tell your friend to Jagger at the worst possible times. Some people might think this is stupid but it actually works out in your favor if you do it really confident-like and just act like you're having the time of your life. It's a lot of fun to do in the bar and people are drawn to fun. Actually, you'll get approached sometimes by hott girls when you do this. It just looks like ya'll are having a great time and they want to be a part of it. People go to bars to have a good time, right? If ur having a great time then people will be drawn to you automatically. Signing off. Cheers.
P.S. oh, and a note about "tuff guys" who walk around the bar like they're there to kick someone's ass....GET REAL CHUMP. I'm 6'4/230lbs and I don't walk around the bar like anything other than a fun/positive guy. Actually I have a story about this from this past weekend. I was chattin' up a 2-set of girls who were "with" a guy who was one of these types that tried to act all tough. I went to give him a high-five and he just looked and me and said in a pissed off voice that he wasn't gonna shake my hand and that he didn't know who the hell i was. Hmmm....i guess he was mad b/c i was dominating "his" set of girls and that i kiss-closed the girl he was trying to get with. The girls even bought me a drink. I don't consider myself an evil-doer for doing this. I just taught that guy a valuable lesson that I hope he picked up on.
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