HOW TO GET A KISS

Getting a kiss is not as hard as you would think.  Depending on the person, there is a process of slow physical escalation that must occur before the kiss.  And when it's time to kiss, you'll know it.  You can just feel it.  You just know that "Hell, if I go in to kiss her right now, she is not going to turn her cheek or object to it."  In the dating world, this slow physical escalation is referred to as "kino" or "kinesthetic" escalation.  It starts with the hands usually, which builds comfort by touching you and being more physical with you.  Start off small.  You always want to make sure that she is comfortable with the escalation.  Be gentle and don't be aggressive with it.  But be assertive.  Know what she wants and be decisive about it.  It shows alpha-male characteristics and that is attractive.