PROXIMITY AND AVAILABILITY: MAKING IT EASIER TO BE APPROACHED

Imagine that you are an employee for a successful corporation and your boss decides to send you on an all-inclusive vacation to anywhere you want to go.  The first thing you do is go to a travel agent and get some brochures on potential vacation spots.  The first brochure has pictures of blue skies, white sandy beaches, and friendly people walking around in bathing suits.  The second brochure has pictures of grey skies, busy city streets, and people walking around miserably in thick winter coats and toboggans.  Which destination do you think you will choose.  That's right.  The warm, sunny beach because it looks inviting, relaxing, and fun.  The same applies to people.  Who do you think people will be more willing to visit, the cold and cloudy person or the warm and sunny person?  Going about your day like you are in a lousy mood is definitely not the way to interact with people and will severely decrease your chances of being approached by a potential date.  Similarly, faking a happy mood only goes so far.  Putting on the outside something that is radically different from what is on the inside will eventually become overwhelmingly exhausting.  Now, going about your day like you're having the time of your life will draw other like-minded people to you like a miracle.  In your day to day life, be that warm, inviting, and fun beach that everyone wants to visit.  Don't take life so seriously.  Nothing should be that big of a deal.  Don't worry.  Be happy.  I've discovered, through countless trial and error, that you can increase your general happiness by 150% if you eliminate worry from your mind.  My biggest worry for the past 3 years has been graduating college.  What's the worst that could happen though?  I don't graduate?  What's the huge deal?  My success in life does not depend on my achievements in this material country we live in.  It does not depend on the size of my bank account.  My success in life depends on me being alive!  That's it.  I don't have to do a damn thing to be "successful".  I don't HAVE to do anything although there are things I WANT to do.  I want to graduate college.  I've made it this far so I WANT to finish what I started.  I also WANT to give this life my best shot and be the best I can be.  I WANT to help people with their dating and relationship troubles.  Being upbeat and positive is a huge part of what drives me to seek what I am seeking.  People want to have that kind of positivity in their lives.  People who bring that to the table are much more attractive.  So, breathe positivity and live it like there's no tomorrow.  You may very well be amazed by the results.  Signing off.  Cheers.