IF THERE'S NO KINO, DON'T GO FOR IT!

Kino is short for "kinesthetic", which means touching.  In romantic situations, there is always a kinesthetic escalation that takes place before anything physical happens.  I've learned that, on first dates, if there's no kino, don't go for the kiss.  Especially with older women.  If you don't feel like the chemistry is there yet, or it's just not ripe enough, then don't go for the kiss.  Just give her a hug, say you had a great time, and say bye.  Signing off. Cheers.