Men are like Scooby Doo on steroids when it comes to dating and interacting with women. But, being a woman, you usually need a net to drain out all the guys who you don't want. The trick is tweeking your net to catch the good ones and weed out the bad ones. Your net is a metaphor for how you present yourself and how you respond to different stimuli in a social environment. It's actually quite simple. I am going to quote someone (who I can't recall) who I read about during my many months of studying dating science. "If you want the man of your dreams, be the woman of his dreams." The point is, you tend to attract mates who resemble yourself. Here's an example, if you are known around your town for being a slut, then you are not going to attract a true gentleman. If you are a man who is known for being a sleazeball, then most high-caliber women are going to stay away from you. If you fall into this category and wish to attract a true gentleman or lady, move to another town and start over. LOL. But, if you are a true lady or gentleman, get out there and convey your personality. Meet as many people as you possibly can and through time, the one will come. It's a numbers game. I learned this a long time ago. Meet as many people as you can and eventually you will meet the one that fits you.
First thing is first, men are initially attracted to visual images or, looks. Women are more complex. As most women know, they are attracted to personality, sense of humor, status, etc. Be yourself. Act the same way you would act if you were around a known friend or family member. Comfortable and relaxed. Signing off. Cheers.
-Tuck
