JUNE 3, 2011: I DIDN'T WANT TO GO OUT

Since I have decided to do the StyleLife Challenge a 2nd time, I have had much success on Day 7 and Day 8.  But, just like on my first time through the Challenge, I had problems with Day 9 b/c it was hard to find a co-ed group of people my age.  I tried it during the day but it took me two days to realize that I would have much more success just going to a bar and doing an approach there.  So, that's what I did.  And I accomplished my mission for Day 9.  Off to Day 10; disqualification day.  It's where you do an approach and subtlely let the girl know you don't want to date her.  Oh yes, the power of NO is extremely potent.  This will be easy b/c I can do all my approaches on lone women instead of having to find a group.  Lone women are everywhere during the day.  Piece of cake.

Anyways, judging by my title for this post, I guess I better write something pertinant to my night out tonight.  I displayed extremely high-value behavior tonight.  Lauren from UNCA was the stage.  We were at the Emerald Lounge and I had to tell her the story of how I looked after Julie-Boolie that one night she got too drunk. I took her back to my apt. b/c she couldn't drive and she slept on my couch. She's a good girl and I'm glad I looked out for her.

SPECIFICALLY FOR SARA FLETCHER: SHE IS A SWEETHEART

Men are like Scooby Doo on steroids when it comes to dating and interacting with women.  But, being a woman, you usually need a net to drain out all the guys who you don't want.  The trick is tweeking your net to catch the good ones and weed out the bad ones.  Your net is a metaphor for how you present yourself and how you respond to different stimuli in a social environment.  It's actually quite simple.  I am going to quote someone (who I can't recall) who I read about during my many months of studying dating science.  "If you want the man of your dreams, be the woman of his dreams."  The point is, you tend to attract mates who resemble yourself.  Here's an example, if you are known around your town for being a slut, then you are not going to attract a true gentleman.  If you are a man who is known for being a sleazeball, then most high-caliber women are going to stay away from you.  If you fall into this category and wish to attract a true gentleman or lady, move to another town and start over.  LOL.  But, if you are a true lady or gentleman, get out there and convey your personality.  Meet as many people as you possibly can and through time, the one will come.  It's a numbers game.  I learned this a long time ago.  Meet as many people as you can and eventually you will meet the one that fits you.
First thing is first, men are initially attracted to visual images or, looks.  Women are more complex.  As most women know, they are attracted to personality, sense of humor, status, etc.  Be yourself.  Act the same way you would act if you were around a known friend or family member.  Comfortable and relaxed.  Signing off.  Cheers.

-Tuck

THE NEXT STEP...

Get out there and learn something.  Improve yourself.  You don't have to do anything.  You will improve and become great.  Just stay comfortable with yourself and take the ride for what it's worth.  It's a learning process and you need not feel nervous or anxious about it.  Everything is going to be fine.  I'm going to take a bootcamp with Speer in New York in August.  I am very excited.  It's going to be an avalanche of knowledge and skills.

Possessing Your Own World

In the rules of attraction, there is a huge part that consists of a man having his OWN reality.  He owns it and is comfortable with it.  That's what a woman wants...to find a man who has his own reality and owns that reality.  He is completely comfortable with his reality and will not change it because he knows that if nothing else happens he will always be able to retreat back to his own reality.  Having your own reality means being centered in yourself.  That's attractive.  People who are centered within themselves attract people to them.  Having your own reality means having other people comfortable coming into it.  What I have realized is that meditation helps me center myself.  Meditate and become completely comfortable with yourself.  Hope this helps.  Signing off.  Cheers.

ATTRACTION OVERVIEW...

If you want the WOMAN of your dreams then be the MAN of her dreams...gentlemen, it's not a one way street.  You see that woman you would do anything to be with...she is waiting for the man of her dreams to come and sweep her off her feet.  BE the man of her dreams.  This is a self-improvement program to become the MAN that she always dreamt of.  Gentlemen, get in shape.  Accessorize your looks.  Groom yourself.  Smell good when you go out.  But most importantly, have a life.  Have something going for you.  Hell, have a lot going for you.  Get a good job.  Be a good worker.  Make yourself important.  Be indespinsable to your company.  Amp up your survival value and make her want you.  Become a man who can provide.

Smell of Victory

It's getting closer and closer.  That moment when I graduate and take the next step in my life.  I have reconsidered my goals since the last past and I am thinking about moving up to Cincinatti, Ohio for a job with Advantage Corp.  I have family up there and there is also a PUA lair that I can join.  It seems like a good place to move.  My aunt up there is a real estate agent and she can find me a good place to live while I'm there.  I'm so excited.  I can't wait.  After the darkest 4 years of my life in this city I will finally graduate from college and move to a bigger city full of new possibilities.  Cheers to the next step.  Signing off.